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How To Know If You are a Toxic Lover – The CEBI Example

Why Girls Don’t Like Nice Guys – The Rico Swarvey Example You have a hard time saying sorry Do you find that saying sorry feels like you are belittling yourself? It feels like you are doing something stressful. It feels like you are doing something wrong or embarrassing. You literarily do not drive any pleasure in making people you have wronged feel better and all you just want to do is get it over with. You feel like all your partners have wronged you and you had no part to play to cause the end of previous relationships Essentially, this is you seeing nothing wrong with your actions. If you find it hard to see where you’ve gone wrong in issues. If at the heart of every argument is you seeing your lovers as the villain then you have a problem. In every disagreement, every party involved had a significant part to play and people become toxic when they can’t see their own flaws but capitalize on that of others. You sometimes feel like you are out of control that it’s someone else taking over your actions This basically means you lack emotional intelligence and you let your feelings cloud your thoughts. For every time you do something you don’t understand that you have hurt someone until something serious happens. Toxic people act out of intense devotion, possessiveness, insecurities and deep emotions felt for their partners. See Also: Five Ways To Loose Your Woman: The Tobi Example Things get to you easily Are that you person that gets irritated and infuriated by the slightest provocation? Then you just might be a toxic lover. If you have a happy heart and a free mind then overlooking things with a positive mindset would be your forte. If everyone in this world had a hard time overlooking things or forgiving actions then this world would be a toxic place to live in. Strength is not measured by engaging in petty arguments, it is measured by understanding and making quick and rational decisions as to why fighting is not worth it. All your exes have complained that you are dramatic and they can’t deal For more than one person to state this then darling, it’s not a people against me. It’s a me against myself thing. Everybody can’t lie to you. Once it becomes a pattern then you should start to rethink it. See Also: Five Ways To Lose Your Man: The Cee-C Example You feel like you don’t have real friends or maybe you don’t have friends at all People generally run away from someone that they see as a toxic lover. If you notice that your friends consistently avoid you whether there is an issue or not then something is gravely wrong with your attitude. All in all, toxic people aren’t necessarily bad people, they have a buildup of sad and depressing emotions which need to be worked one. Most toxic people are plagued by the superiority complex, seeking and demanding validation whereas what they really need is self-validation. At the heart of superiority complex is an inferiority complex. See Also: How To Be Irresistible To Women: The Teddy A Example If you feel like this is you or someone you know then get help for yourself or that person. Toxic people are not wicked they just have unmanaged emotions and self-esteem issues.]]>

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