1. When you don’t define your relationship and don’t have a boundary: Some ladies do say they don’t want illicit sex but they will only satisfy their partners with kissing, pecking e.t.c. Please note that kissing and pecking are not for sexual satisfaction but for sexual stimulation. The man you think you are satisfied with kissing; packing and hugging will become aggressive after you might have allowed him to fondle you because he is highly stimulated and not satisfied. He can kill you to have his way. Hence DO NOT START WHAT YOU CAN NOT FINISH. Run away from kissing, pecking and fondling until you are married.